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NOS VAMOS

tomorrow starts the last leg of our adoption process, the trip to Vietnam last land! to meet our child.
During these months we have lamented this "desperate" wait, but come this day everything seems a bad dream.
We are so nervous about the trip and everything that is going to happen these days of meeting with our son, I can hardly think of writing. So today I'll make this brief entry just to convey the news of our journey that we want and you continue through these pages.

I wish I could tell from Vietnam all we going to go logbook mode, but as we will not know how "busy" with our small, do not want to commit to anything.

Hoy por hoy solo puedo deciros que estamos llenos de felicidad, (en el sentido más estricto de la palabra), que nos acordaremos de todos vosotros y que intentaremos disfrutar de cada momento de nuestro niño y de su país.

Allá vamos Vietnam, espero que nos recibas con los brazos abiertos

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FOR OUR CHILDREN GRANDPARENTS ALSO FAILED ATTEMPT TO ADOPT NEW

A pesar de que ya hemos cumplido más de cinco meses de espera, y que estas últimas semanas están siendo terriblemente desesperantes, hoy no he querido hacer una entrada en este blog sobre esa cuestión. He preferido hablar sobre el tema de la última reunión que hemos tenido en AFAM (Asociación de Familias Adoptantes Multiétnicas) titulado “LOS ADOPT grandparents. " It was about making a video forum about a beautiful and charming short film entitled "ACE OF HEARTS" led by Silvia Gonzalez, and tells the story of an adopted child and a grandfather who begins to learn to be. I invite you to see him on this link:




Actually I always thought that the decision to adopt a couple takes in a moment of your life does not always have to be quick and cheerfully shared by grandparents, who must face a new event for which there are always willing and / or may internalize rapidly. I think it's important for us to respect your time and pace of preparation for the act of becoming a foster grandparents, as we prepare and prepares us to be adoptive parents. Us during this time out we become increasingly aware of the "peculiarities" that means having an adopted child (such as providing answers to questions about its history, overcome the rejection they may feel about their environment ... and thousands of issues) and get ready to face them but who prepares our parents, grandparents-to these "peculiarities" of our children? What do they know about the different implications of the decision of their children to become in adoptive potatoes? How can remove their beliefs such as "blood of my blood" and defend with conviction to comments from their own social-familiar? How can they face their fears about the feelings I have absolutely foreign to a little person, who at first only daughter of a willingness to take from others (their children)? How to deal with their reactions to this Niñ @ will not reproduce the features of the family but others will look like physically? For me personally I can think of many issues of this type.

why I find extremely important figure of the grandparents in this adventure of being a father-mother adopted, and to have their presence is essential to accept unconditionally its own time, their thoughts, doubts and beliefs. To achieve this I think we should involve them right from the start, we must make them participate in this waiting, this desire so vast and so profound feelings we have towards our children, but do not exist in our bellies and just live in our hearts and mind.

never forget the day my mother looking at the photo of my child's allowance (which is in his room and sees every day) surprised herself and her feelings, I said: "Well would you believe? I already feel that I, how can be possible ... "I have the answer but I dared not tell, simply" I want because I've achieved what you want "
How do I get? because through my eyes, my hope, my words and writing in this blog (and potato you have read) I have taken in hand to my son and I have come to him "but you knew just account "and has been and why you feel what you feel. Or maybe it's as simple as that, you and dad love me so much that you can not resist you to feel what I feel and what I want so strongly, and yet you are able to fully comprehend it, make a hole in your heart for a little boy who still do not even know. GRANDPARENTS

thanks for being there.