We have been 13 days with our child and although I can not believe, every day I wake up and see him in his cradle me back to the wonderful reality.
What have my little boy? That this "little guy" and has stolen my heart. We're crazy with it, because we see so happy and comfortable with us, which is a pleasure to delight in observing.
I acknowledge that I was very scared the first day and the adaptation process, I had expectations (depending on experience other parents) a little conflicting, but this kid has us very easy, since the day of the meeting that "came for" echándonos's arms and has not stopped. You can touch it, "Shagged" and kiss without any problems, eats well and sleeps around and even better, in fact, spends many hours sleeping, I say "that looks like a silk worm because he always sleepy and it is one who cries, cries also good if you pick up in arms (and has begun to draw his character, has become accustomed to the arms and the calls you constantly).
The truth is that it is great, though I was skinny and small for his age
I never thought I'd get him so well, now also has left a "barrigota" important, he loves yogurt and "cuddle" from their parents. He looks full of happiness as much as we are with him.
I feel very lucky that all the effort, the patience, the desperation and the wait has been worthwhile, no doubt.
When I look I think our history and our way of parenting is concentrated in that little body, in those eyes, in the face ... everything, everything, I lived and sometimes suffered, had a unique and wonderful goal to reach Him. All lived makes sense and meaning when I have him in my arms. If biology have allowed me to be a mother when I decided, I would have missed the opportunity to know him and worst of all I would be deprived of his mother, and that's something that now seems inconceivable.
What have my little boy? That this "little guy" and has stolen my heart. We're crazy with it, because we see so happy and comfortable with us, which is a pleasure to delight in observing.
I acknowledge that I was very scared the first day and the adaptation process, I had expectations (depending on experience other parents) a little conflicting, but this kid has us very easy, since the day of the meeting that "came for" echándonos's arms and has not stopped. You can touch it, "Shagged" and kiss without any problems, eats well and sleeps around and even better, in fact, spends many hours sleeping, I say "that looks like a silk worm because he always sleepy and it is one who cries, cries also good if you pick up in arms (and has begun to draw his character, has become accustomed to the arms and the calls you constantly).
The truth is that it is great, though I was skinny and small for his age
I never thought I'd get him so well, now also has left a "barrigota" important, he loves yogurt and "cuddle" from their parents. He looks full of happiness as much as we are with him.
I feel very lucky that all the effort, the patience, the desperation and the wait has been worthwhile, no doubt.
When I look I think our history and our way of parenting is concentrated in that little body, in those eyes, in the face ... everything, everything, I lived and sometimes suffered, had a unique and wonderful goal to reach Him. All lived makes sense and meaning when I have him in my arms. If biology have allowed me to be a mother when I decided, I would have missed the opportunity to know him and worst of all I would be deprived of his mother, and that's something that now seems inconceivable.
To all who are in this way I tell you, it is worth the tears, despair, patience .... However, because these are the side effects of our adoptive pregnancy, you have to go through it to reach our children ... all to become their parents.
